New School Year and New Beginnings - 7 Tips for Supporting Teens

As the new school year begins, we have the opportunity to support youth in new ways and see them in full-color. Caring and connected adults (Anchors) can make a profound difference in the lives of youth. Here are some tips to support students in and outside of a school setting:  

1. Be present to deepen connections with the teens you Anchor

Work to deepen the connections between you and the teens you already Anchor by amplifying what is right and strong about them, celebrating them in ways that are meaningful to them, and by working alongside them on projects that you both choose.
 

2. Amplify what is right and strong about teens

Practice looking for the strengths within teens. When you see strengths, point them out, in words, letters, social media posts, or any other way that is meaningful to the teens.
 

3. Let teens know you will never give up on them

Adults are important influencers on teens and knowing that the adults in their lives believe in them and are there for them unconditionally is powerful!
 

4. Make an effort to reach out and celebrate teens

Move out of your comfort zone by introducing yourself to the teens in your neighborhood, school, faith community, and/or youth-serving organization.
 

5. Involve teens

Look around you. If there are are no teens on your committee, in your work environment, in your meeting, or in your midst, change that! Invite them in, and create an environment where they want to stay.
 

6. You (yes, that’s you!) have what it takes to Anchor teens

Never give up on yourself. YOU are the adult. Become an Anchor. You can do it and it will make a difference!
 

7. Encourage and support your co-workers, friends, and family members to see teens through a strength-based lens

Share the Web of Support with others around you and show them how easy it is to make changes in the community by Anchoring teens.

Strong in Every Way

For Kris Devereaux, Chief Academic Officer, and her colleagues at Zionsville Community Schools in Indiana, strengthening the Social and Emotional competence of students throughout the district is a top priority. And they have invited Brightways Learning to help them reach their goals by implementing Kaleidoscope Connect’s Integrative Youth Development (IYD) framework. 

IYD is a strengths-based approach that teaches adults how to focus on what is right with youth and help kids build Webs of Support by identifying key individuals (Anchors) who provide authentic caring and high expectations. This, in turn, builds resilience, equipping youth with the SEL skills, attitudes, values, and confidence they need to thrive amid life’s challenges.
 
The district’s journey to improve SEL – and to integrate IYD – began about a year ago. The administrators, led by Superintendent Scott Robison, began working closely with their K-12 counselors to learn how they could better meet the needs of students at all levels. 

“Something that became very apparent to all of us after listening to our counselors was that we really needed to strengthen the focus on the social and emotional aspects of our students,” said Kris. “Our district has done well academically for many years, but we realized we need to make sure we are giving the same attention to the social and emotional well-being of the kids.”
 
Superintendent Robison had learned about IYD after reading Helping Kids Succeed*, a handbook co-written by Derek Peterson, Youth Development Expert and partner of Brightways Learning. The book explains how the principles and practices of IYD have the power to change the trajectory of students’ lives by building support networks (Webs of Support) that cultivate caring and connected schools and communities.
 
Superintendent Robison gave the book to all counselors and administrators. And after reading it, the counselors agreed that this approach made sense for young people in Zionsville.

Strong in Every Way

Superintendent Robison then developed a human capital campaign called Strong in Every Way™ that included three pillars:
 

1. Developing Webs of Support

2. Developing assets and resources

3. Creating cultures of understanding

The district began putting the pieces into place. In addition to their commitment to IYD, they added Elementary Wellness 360 (PE + SEL), hired an Extended Experiences Coordinator at the high school to connect students with their passions, started a new Career-Based Experiences program, and provided Implicit Bias training for district employees. In addition, Zionsville changed school start times to match the research on adolescents’ need for school to start at or after 8:30 AM, and the district collaborated with The Gift Of Failure author Jessica Lahey to do community book studies online and in person, and to have Lahey visit the district to provide professional development for teachers and a public presentation attended by more than 800 parents.
 
With help from funds awarded by a Lilly Endowment Implementation grant, Kris and six of her colleagues attended a presentation given by Derek at the University of Indianapolis in spring of 2017. “Derek’s presentation confirmed that IYD absolutely aligned with Dr. Robison’s vision and the campaign we were developing,” said Kris, “We immediately booked Derek to kick off the campaign at the beginning of the 2017-18 school year.”
 
Grant funds were also utilized to send four people – Dr. Amanda Slonaker, clinical neuropsychologist for the district; Lynn Kissel, the district’s Community Development and Residency Specialist; and two community members and parents, Erin Bivans-Johnson and Amie Peele Carter – to Phases 1 and 2 of Kaleidoscope Connect’s IYD Academy in Edmonton, Alberta last May. 
 
The Academy qualified them to train others in the district to share the IYD story so that all parents and community members understand key IYD concepts like: being an Anchor to students, throwing and catching supports (strings), being aware of events that disrupt the Web (scissor cuts), and expanding a young person's abilities, talents, and resilience (growing the balloon).

Three months later, on August 3, 2017, the district formally kicked off the Strong in Every Way™ campaign faculty and staff training, with Derek leading an action-packed day! 

Beginning early in the morning, and lasting well into the evening, Derek delivered hands-on IYD workshops and keynote presentations for nearly 2,000 people including all district administrators and staff members, students, parents, community members, and guests from surrounding communities. 
 
“It was an amazing, motivating day,” exclaimed Kris. “Derek exceeded our expectations. He reminded everyone that we are here for the kids, and instilled the importance of coming together as a community to build strong Webs of Support for our youth.”
 
As the new school year begins, the district is continuing to infuse the principals of IYD into their faculty, staff, Board, and key parent volunteers. Zionsville will continue sharing information about Anchors and Webs of Support with community organizations, places of worship, students, parents,  and community members. 

“I was interested to see how the first day of school, just five days after Derek’s kickoff, might feel or look different than it has in years past,” said Kris. “I immediately saw evidence that Derek’s work with the staff had a direct impact on the lens through which we are viewing students.
 
“As I visited the various schools, I found so many teachers taking time to really get to know the students. They weren’t just focusing on curriculum or talking about rules and procedures, but engaging the kids in interactive, getting-to-know-you games and activities.  

“At one school, all students wore nametags so anyone who saw them in the hallway could call them by name. And several teachers were doing Derek’s “balloon-bop” activity with kids, talking about the importance of strong Webs of Support and not letting any of their classmates fall through the cracks. It was very impactful.  
 
“One student who had worked with Derek was in the hallway while a brand-new student was receiving a tour. She immediately walked over to the new student, introduced herself, and asked the student to introduce himself. ‘I’m here for you,’ she said. 'If you see me in the hall be sure to wave.’ It was very touching to see that Derek truly got through to the kids who participated in the kickoff. 

“Parents commented that in the past they received forms to get just basic information about students at the beginning of the year. This year the forms asked questions like ‘what does your family like to do together?’, and ‘what can you tell us about your child’s resiliency and grit?’ Parents felt that the schools really wanted to get to know their kids.  
 
“And we know kids are bringing it home with them. A parent contacted me and said that she was thrilled that her son was using the Webs and Anchors language, even referencing several of them during a family game night.”

So What’s Next?

The district has applied for a Lilly Endowment grant that, if awarded, will help fund their four-year plan, including building in measurements to gauge success with longitudinal data. 
 
“Not all of our plans are dependent upon the grant,” said Kris. “Whether or not we are awarded, we plan to continue reinforcing throughout the year what we have learned. But if we do receive the funds,  Derek will be our first phone call so we can continue to have him work with students and staff for the next four years!”

Derek and the team at Brightways are excited to work with the Zionsville students, staff, and community to help make their Strong in Every Way™ campaign a success. “We look forward to supporting Zionsville’s vision,” said Derek Peterson, "and working alongside them to build a caring, connected community with resilient students and the adults who are equipped to support them."
 


*Helping Kids Succeed--The Hastings Way, published in 2014, was written by and for the people of Hastings, MN along with Derek Peterson, partner of Brightways Learning and creator of IYD. 

Youth advocate encourages webs of support to build resiliency

By Heather Lusk of Current in Zionsville

Why do some children thrive while others fail?

PETERSON ILLUSTRATED A “WEB OF SUPPORT” TO HELP YOUTH THRIVE (PHOTO BY HEATHER LUSK)

That was the question youth advocate Derek Peterson explored as he spoke to more than 1,500 community members over two sessions Aug. 3 after meeting with educators, Zionsville Community Schools staff and selected students.

Peterson believes that creating a web of support for youth is a big factor, illustrating the concept by asking volunteers to act as anchors connected by crisscrossed strings to hold a balloon.

Adult anchors serve as support for each child whether they are teachers, family members, family friends, coaches or mentors. Ideally each child needs at least five caring adults in their life, Peterson said. The anchors create a web of protective factors (shown with string), whether concrete like food and a home or conceptual like courage and integrity. The balloon, or youth, won’t fall into the cracks of the web according to Peterson if they have strong support or if they “fill their balloon.”

“If you build the web of support the safety net takes care of itself,” Peterson said.

Peterson said that youth with strong webs become more resilient to social challenges and thrive in overcoming adversity and helping others.

“Your kid is more likely to thrive when they’re more connected to other people,” Peterson said. “Our data says every kid needs a personal village.”

He encouraged parents to see kids in a full spectrum of color versus the black and white of a good kid or bad kid.

“Accentuate the positive and that affects the whole color spectrum,” he said as a way to interact with teens. “Web up, because you will be more resilient if you have a web of support.”

As an expert in the field of youth development, Peterson was sponsored by ZCS as part of the Strong in Every Way initiative.

Homeschooling: A Good Choice for Your Family?

By Emily Ekegren

Like most families in the Foreign Service, we have lived around the globe over many years. My husband, Jason, and I have lived outside of the U.S. for nearly all of our 11-year marriage. The year we married, while Jason was in the Navy, we moved first to Italy, and then to Mexico. We then made the transition to the Foreign Service and headed to Kazakhstan. We’re currently finishing our tour in Brazil.

We are a very close family. Our boys – Nikolas, our 4th grader, and Joshua, our 5th grader – are happy kids who love to hang out with their friends. Nikolas is a Dr. Who fan (maybe because his favorite subject is science!), and he likes working out with his dad. Joshua enjoys video games, Legos, and watching YouTube. He also likes science, but math is another top favorite. As a family, we love watching movies and exploring in our RV.

When our boys were ready to start school, we were worried about how to best educate them with our transient lifestyle. Our number one priority was to give them consistency and continuity in their schooling, regardless of where we were living. Consistency and continuity would be impossible if they were changing schools every time we relocated. For that and many other reasons, Jason and I decided the best option for our family was to homeschool.

We wanted to do it right, so we researched extensively before Joshua started Kindergarten. My husband wanted to make sure we kept good academic records. I wanted the flexibility to choose education resources that met our needs. Plus, I needed help with accountability. Homeschooling was new to me, and I wanted to stay on track to provide Joshua and Nikolas with a solid education.

We explored many options. But the ideal choice came when we learned about an accredited K-12 distance learning school called Brightways Global Academy that provides homeschool support. We partnered with Brightways Global more than six years ago and have never looked back.

We were assigned Terri as our Certified Teacher, who has been with us every step of the way. Terri helped me choose curriculum resources that fit my boys’ individual learning styles and abilities. Terri helps keep me accountable, reminding and helping me to complete individual learning plans, progress reports, and testing. She emails me and encourages me, but doesn’t micro-manage. Her guidance, support, and advice have been invaluable.

Brightways Global’s online student management system fulfills my family’s goal of good recordkeeping, and it’s easy to use. Their system helps me record and track my boys’ courses, progress, grades, and more. In addition to Terri, the office staff is very responsive and makes my job easier by helping with tuition reimbursement and other administrative tasks.

Homeschooling is the hardest job I’ve ever had. It’s also the most rewarding. It has been the best thing for our family. For other families considering homeschooling, my advice is to find a partner like Brightways Global Academy. Knowing that you don’t have to do it alone will build your confidence and give you peace of mind that your kids are receiving the best education possible.

What’s next for us? We are looking forward to our upcoming tour in the Washington, DC area. Terri is helping us through the transition, so we won’t skip a beat in the boys’ education. We are considering dual enrollment for the boys during high school, and glad to know that Brightways will guide and support us through the process.

Students Succeed in Life with Pre-Employment Transition Services

Are Your Alaska Students Eligible for Tuition Reimbursement?

Brightways Learning is a Certified Rehabilitation Provider for Pre-Employment Transition Services (Pre-ETS) program through the Alaska Division of Vocational Rehabilitation (DVR).

Pre-ETS is for students ages 14-21 with disabilities who are on an IEP, 504 Plan, or are “potentially eligible” for DVR services. Students are “potentially eligible” for DVR if they have difficulties learning, difficulties with attention, or are challenged in an emotional or behavioral way. This could also include kids who have been through treatment, or involved in foster care or juvenile justice. These students do not have to be identified by the school district for special education services.

Brightways Learning provides Phlight Clubs and other youth-development services that help all students increase resilience and social & emotional skills that help them succeed in school, work and life. Pre-ETS funding can offset the cost of Phlight Clubs through tuition reimbursement of $500 per eligible student.

If you are interested in learning more about how your students can benefit, please contact Cindy Barnes at 916-209-3516 or cbarnes@brightwayslearning.org.

4 Tips to Increase Student Resiliency

By Amy McDonald

“Growing your Balloon” is one of the factors that our Kaleidoscope Connect full-color framework teaches and is represented by the color Green.

Green (the Balloon) represents each youth and their innate characteristics, natural abilities, and talents.

There are five areas we measure to determine the size – or resiliency – of the individual Balloon: Grit/Optimism, A Sense of Wonder, Gender, Positive Social Orientation, and How I Am Smart.

Within our framework, we do not ask youth, “How smart are you?” Instead we ask, “How are you smart?” By looking through this strength-based lens, we celebrate the unique talents and intelligences that every youth has.

To help youth grow their Balloons (their resiliency), here are 4 tips to support them in the development of their individual intelligences:

1. Take time to learn about the many different types of intelligences. Often we think about “being smart” as being “book smart” or “school smart,” when in reality there are many ways to be smart. In 1983, at Harvard University, Howard Gardner developed the theory of Multiple Intelligences. His theory was that measuring only IQ was too limiting. Instead, Mr. Gardner proposed eight kinds of intelligences: verbal, logical, visual, musical, naturalistic, kinesthetic, interpersonal, and intrapersonal. Edutopia provides an excellent recap of Gardner’s theory: http://edut.to/2f2efol.

2. So, how do you go about identifying how someone is smart? There are many online assessments and surveys to support youth in finding where their intelligences lie (here is just one example: http://edut.to/2fmDORH). These assessments ask a series of questions that result in a rating for each intelligence. For example, if you are a strong visual learner, your score for Visual Intelligence will be high, whereas if you are not as strong in the area of Musical Intelligence your score there will be lower.

3. Connect youth with adults who can amplify their intelligences. As we connect with youth, we cannot be everything that every youth needs. Get to know youth better – talk to them, spend time with them – and find out where their intelligences are strong. If you are strong in the same area, then engage in activities that amplify this intelligence. If you are not strong in this area, find other adults to whom you can connect to the youth. Connecting youth to more adults will thicken their Webs of Support!

4. Celebrate the unique intelligences of youth. Seeing youth through a full-color lens ensures that we focus on many aspects of that youth, including unique talents and intelligences. It takes all types of individuals to make up this wonderful world. Take time to celebrate these unique intelligences and the youth’s progress as they realize and grow them. Some ways to celebrate include:

• Inviting people to youth performances

• Recommending youth for specific activities/responsibilities because of their unique intelligences

• Sharing accomplishments of youth with others

• Giving clear and concise feedback

Contact Brightways Learning to learn more about Kaleidoscope Connect’s full-color framework.

Amy has more than two decades of experience in K-12 education, including English Language Learning, classroom teaching, Lead Teacher, and School Counselor. She has a Bachelor’s in Linguistics, a K-8 Type B Teaching Certification, and a Masters in K-12 School Counseling. She has worked in youth development since she started in education. Currently, she leads Kaleidoscope Connect events with both youth and adults in the United States and Canada. Amy provides a fresh look at youth development as she continues to work in multiple school districts and youth and tribal organizations in Alaska and outside the state.